Inhlolokhono yomuntu siqu ingenye yezindlela zokuqala zokuthola umsebenzi. Ngalo, umuntu angacacisa wonke amakhono akhe futhi athuthukise izindlela zakhe zokuxhumana nabanye. Umuntu ubhekana nemibuzo eminingi phakathi nenhlolokhono futhi kufanele abhekane nayo ngomoya ophansi nangendlela efanele, ngezindaba ezinhle nezingezinhle futhi aphendule umbuzo: Kufanele ngenze kanjani uma ngingayazi impendulo ku-interview?

 Yiziphi izindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokwenza uma ngingayazi impendulo yombuzo wenhlolokhono?

Kunezindlela eziningana umuntu okufanele enze ngazo lapho engayazi impendulo yemibuzo kungxoxo yomuntu siqu:

• Kufanele uqale uzinike isikhathi sokucabanga ngempendulo yakho embuzweni futhi ungacela lowo obuza imibuzo ukuthi awuphinde umbuzo.
• Kufanele uvume ukuthi awukwazi ukuphendula umbuzo ngendlela yobungcweti.
• Ungakwazi ukuhlobanisa umbuzo nokunye okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kwangaphambilini.
• Kufanele ukhombise ukuzimisela kwakho ukufunda ngezinto ongazazi, okuzokwandisa amathuba okuthola lowo msebenzi kanye nomzamo wakho oqhubekayo nokuphishekela.

Ngibhekana kanjani nokucindezeleka nokwesaba kuyilapho ngingayazi impendulo?

Ukubhekana nengcindezi nokwesaba umuntu akuzwayo ngesikhathi sezingxoxo zomuntu siqu, ikakhulukazi lapho engakwazi ukuphendula imibuzo ethile, kunezinto ezithile okufanele azilandele:

• Kufanele aphefumule njalo ukuze asuse umuzwa wokwesaba nokushuba.
• Momotheka ngomoya ophansi ukuze ufihle izimpawu zokungezwani futhi ungakwazi ukuphumula nokuphumula ukuze ucabange ngomoya ophansi.
• Udinga ukuhlaziya isimo kahle ukuze ubone indlela efanele enengqondo yokuqeda umuzwa wokwesaba.
• Udinga ukwenza uhlelo oluthile lokubhekana nalo muzwa wokucindezeleka futhi ukwazi ukukhiqiza nokusebenza ngaphandle kokuthi uthinte impilo yakho ngendlela engalungile.

Ingabe kufanele ngivume ukuthi angazi noma ngizame ukuqagela ezingxoxweni?

Ayikho impendulo eqondile yalo mbuzo, njengoba ungeke uvume ngokuqondile ukuthi awuyazi impendulo, futhi awukwazi ukuqagela impendulo. Kunamanye amasu okufanele uthembele kuwo uma ungakwazi ukuphendula ezingxoxweni zomuntu siqu, okuyilawa:

• Kufanele uzenze ngokuzenzakalelayo futhi uthembeke lapho usebenza nomuntu obuza imibuzo ngesikhathi senhlolokhono. Ungasho ukuthi awukaze ubhekane nombuzo ofana nalo ngaphambilini, esikhundleni sokuthi usho ukuthi awuyazi impendulo.
• Ungacabanga uphimisele ngalo mbuzo bese uwuphinda futhi ukuze ucabange ngawo ngomoya ophansi.
• Uma ungayazi impendulo yombuzo, ungacela omunye umuntu ukuthi akuchazele kabanzi ukuze ukuqonde ngendlela ezolile.
• Uma umbuzo umayelana nekhono elithile, ungachaza ukuthi awunalo ulwazi olwanele kuleyo ndawo.
• Ungaqageli impendulo, njengoba lokhu kungase kunciphise ukuzethemba kobuzayo ngekhono lakho lokusingatha izimo ezinzima emsebenzini.
• Kufanele ugcizelele ikhono lakho lokuphumelela nokufunda ngokuqhubekayo ukuze uthole izimpendulo ezifanele zale mibuzo.

Ngilikhombisa kanjani ikhono lami nekhono lokufunda esikhundleni sempendulo eqondile?

Kunezinto eziningi okufanele uzithenge ukuze ubonise wonke amakhono akho okufunda kangcono kunokungawuphenduli umbuzo:

• Ungaqala ngokubuza isethi yemibuzo ezokusiza ukuthi uthole okwengeziwe engxoxweni futhi ufunde okwengeziwe ngomsebenzi.
• Ungakwazi ukuxhuma ulwazi lwakho kulokho onakho ukuze ukwazi ukuqondisa ikhono lakho ukuze likusize ufunde ngendlela engcono.
• Ungazama ezinye izindlela ezisebenzayo ezifaka isandla ekufundeni kangcono nasekufinyeleleni ulwazi ngendlela elula kunokufunda ngokwetiyori.
• Kufanele uhlanganyele ezingxoxweni eziningi mayelana nokuthi ungazithuthukisa kanjani nezindlela ezifanele ezifaka isandla ekufundeni.
• Ungasebenzisa izindlela zobuchwepheshe zesimanje ukuze ufunde ngazo zonke izinkambu ezintsha.

Imaphi amasu angangisiza ukuthi ngisebenzise isikhathi sokungazi?

Kukhona ezinye izindlela ezingakusiza ukuthi uzithuthukise futhi uzuze ngokungazi impendulo ngesikhathi senhlolokhono, okuyilezi:

• Ungakwazi ukushintsha lesi sikhathi sibe yithuba eliyingqayizivele lokufunda izinto ezintsha ngokucela incazelo enemininingwane noma ukucaciselwa kwalo mbuzo.
• Ungavuma ngemuva kokwazi yonke imininingwane ngalolu daba futhi uchaze nokuma kwakho ukuthi kungani ungazange usebenze kulo mkhakha phambilini nokunye.
• Kumele ukwenze kucace komunye umuntu ukuthi ungafunda futhi ufunde ngalesi sihloko ukuze uthole impendulo efanele nefanelekile, ezoqinisa isikhundla sakho.
• Kufanele uzame ukubhekana kahle ngolimi lomzimba. Akufanele ubonise ukwethuka kwakho. Kufanele umomotheke, uzame ukukhuluma ngomoya ophansi, futhi uphendule ngendlela yobungcweti.

Ngililungisa kanjani izinga lempendulo yami ezingxoxweni zomuntu siqu uma ngingawuqondi ngokugcwele umbuzo?

Ukuze uthuthukise izinga lakho lokuphendula kwinhlolokhono yomuntu siqu, uma ubuzwa umbuzo ongaqondakali, kufanele wenze izinto ezithile:

• Ungase ucele ukucaciswa kombuzo futhi ngendlela efanele.
• Ungakwazi ukucacisa umbuzo ngolwazi lwakho lwangaphambilini, uma lukhona.
• Ungabeki izimpendulo ezijwayelekile nezingaqondakali embuzweni.
• Ungazibukeli phansi. Kufanele uzethembe, kodwa ungakhulumi ngendlela engafanele.

Imibuzo evamise ukubuzwa mayelana nokuziphatha okufanele uma ungaphenduli kunhlolokhono yomuntu siqu

Ngingacela ukuthi umbuzo uchazwe kabusha noma ucaciswe?

YeboUngacela ukucaciswa kombuzo futhi noma uwubeke kabusha ngendlela elula.

Ngingakulondoloza kanjani ukuzethemba kwami ​​naphezu kokungaphenduli ngokushesha?

Ukuze ugcine ukuzethemba kwakho naphezu kokungakwazi ukuphendula ngokushesha:

• Lawula ulimi lwakho lomzimba ngokumamatheka ngokunethezeka nangokudonsa umoya ngaphambi kokukhuluma.
• Cela omunye umuntu isikhashana sokucabanga.

Kuyamukeleka yini ukuthi uthule isikhashana ucabanga?

Yebo, ukuthula okufushane kuyamukeleka ezingxoxweni zomuntu siqu njengoba kunikeza umuntu ikhono lokucabanga impendulo efanele embuzweni obuziwe futhi kungcono kunempendulo esheshayo nengalungile.

Ngizisebenzisa kanjani izimpendulo ezihlakaniphile uma ngingayazi impendulo?

Kukhona imishwana ongayisebenzisa lapho ungakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo ngokuqondile:

• Uxolo, anginayo impendulo ecacile nenembayo kulokhu.
• Ngiyaxolisa ukuthi angikaze ngibhekane nento efana nalena ngaphambilini.
• Anginalo ulwazi olwanele kulo mkhakha.