Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzibulala ephusheni
Ukuzibulala ephusheni kubonisa ubuntu obubuthakathaka bomphuphi kanye nokungakwazi kwakhe ukuthwala noma yimuphi umthwalo wemfanelo abelwe wona, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungakanani, ngaphandle kokucela usizo kunoma ubani. Noma ubani obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uzilengisile, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokweqisa kwakhe okukhulu ekusebenziseni imali ezintweni ezingenamsebenzi noma ezingenamsebenzi.
Owesilisa ophupha ukuthi uzibulala kuwuphawu olucacile lwesimo sakhe esinokhahlo nokungakwazi kwakhe ukuphatha izinto ngokushelela. Uma umphuphi ebona umkakhe ethatha impilo yakhe, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ubhekene nenkinga enkulu yezempilo ezomgcina elele isikhathi eside. UNkulunkulu wazi kangcono.
Ukuzibulala ngokuminza ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi ulandela izilingo zokuphila kwezwe futhi wenza izenzo eziningi ezimbi. Ngakho-ke kumele asondele eNkosini yakhe futhi afune intethelelo Yayo kungakephuzi. Uma insizwa ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi izibulala ngobuthi, lokhu kusho ukuthi ingumuntu ongenalwazi othanda ukuzihlukanisa naye empilweni yakhe kanye naye, ngisho nalabo abasondelene naye.
Uma umphuphi ezibona eziphonsa ebhilidini elide ukuze afele ebuthongweni bakhe, lokhu kubonisa ubuqotho bezinhloso zakhe zokuphenduka eNkosini yakhe futhi alandele indlela yokuqondisa. Noma ubani obona ebuthongweni bakhe ukuthi usika imithambo yesihlakala phambi kwequlu labantu, lezi yizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi uzobuyela ezingqondweni futhi ayeke ukwenza izinto ezisolisayo, efuna ukujabulisa iNkosi yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona umuntu ezibulala ephusheni
Umuntu ozibulala ephusheni ufanekisela ukuxazululwa kwazo zonke izimo zokuphila kwakhe kanye nokufika kwenjabulo nokukhululeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Kodwa-ke, uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe umuntu omaziyo ethatha impilo yakhe, kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sokuthi uzongena naye emsebenzini omkhulu futhi ophumelelayo webhizinisi, futhi iqembu ngalinye lizothola inzuzo eminingi esikhathini esilandelayo.
Ukubona umuntu ongaziwa umphuphi ezibulala ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokucwiliswa komphuphi ezilwandle zolwazi nokufunda, ukucebisa okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe futhi kuzuze abantu ekuqondeni kwakhe izindaba zenkolo nezezwe. Nakuba intombazane ibona uyise ezibulala, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi uzowasusa wonke lawo maphutha ebuntwini bakhe acishe ahlukanisa umndeni wakhe.
Insizwa ephupha ngowesifazane ongaziwa ezibulala kusho ukuthi izokwazi ukufeza isifiso esingenakwenzeka ekade isilindele. Uma othile ephupha ukuthi uvimbela umuntu ukuba azithathele ukuphila kwakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzokwenza imizamo emikhulu yokuthola izixazululo ezifanele kuzo zonke izinkinga ezingenakunqandeka eziye zavimbela indlela yakhe yokuqhubekela phambili empilweni yakhe esigabeni esidlule.
Uma intombazane iphupha umuntu emthandayo ezibulala phambi kwamehlo ayo, lokhu kuyizindaba ezinhle ukuthi umshado wayo ususondele nokuthi uNkulunkulu uzobahlanganisa ndawonye ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa ngokweNcwadi yaKhe kanye neSunnah yesiThunywa saKhe esihloniphekile ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi umngane wakhe uyazibulala, lokhu kubonisa uthando nokwethembeka kwalo mngane kuye, nokuthi ngeke amshiye yedwa ukuze abhekane nobunzima bokuphila ngaphandle kosizo lwakhe nesikhuthazo.
Ukuhunyushwa kokubona ukuzibulala ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile
Umfazi obona ebuthongweni ukuthi uyazibulala ubonisa ukuthi unezimfanelo eziningi ezinhle, kuhlanganise nokuhlakanipha okusheshayo nokuhlakanipha okwedlulele ekubhekaneni nezimo ezinzima kakhulu. Nakuba inkosikazi ibona ebuthongweni enye yamadodana ayo ithatha ukuphila kwayo, kuyizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi le nsizwa izokhiqiza futhi iphumelele emkhakheni wayo wokufunda futhi izoba umthombo wokuziqhenya nokuzethemba kuyo phambi kwawo wonke umuntu.
Ukuzibulala ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlobo bakhe nomyeni wakhe kanye nokunyamalala kwanoma yikuphi ukucasuka noma izingxabano ezazibangela ukuphazamiseka ebuhlotsheni bakhe nomyeni wakhe. Kodwa-ke, uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi uziphonsa odongeni olude, kuwuphawu olucacile lokuthi uzofinyelela ezikhundleni eziphezulu zezwe ngaphandle kokudebeselela imisebenzi yakhe njengomfazi kumyeni wakhe noma njengomama ezinganeni zakhe.
Ukubona umuntu ongaziwa ezibulala ephusheni owesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukuphela kwesimo sokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka okuye kwalawula kakhulu impilo yakhe ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule. Obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uyazibulala wajabula lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzoluthola udaba lokukhulelwa kwakhe nesibumbu sowesilisa njengoba wayethembile wacela eNkosini yakhe.
Ukuzibulala ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukuthi uzojabulela ukuthula kwengqondo nokucaca komcabango, ngaphandle kwemicabango emibi noma ukukhathazeka okumphazamisayo futhi kumenze alahlekelwe ukuzimisela kwakhe kulokho athanda ukukwenza ekuphileni. Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi usiza othile ukuba azibulale elele, lokho kusho ukuthi uzowela enkingeni enzima futhi adinge kakhulu umuntu ozomsiza ukuba aphume kuyo. UNkulunkulu USomandla Wazi Konke.